You aren't a dummy, quit putting yourself down. We all make mistakes that's why we are human. Some where along the road you did something or said something that ticked W off and even though you may have said sorry for it, the apology was never taken to heart by W so began the resentment. Stop beatin yourself up over it, she has not been perfect in this has she? It usually takes 2 to tango.
IMO W telling you to quit texting when it has to with the kids and call is kind of a positive that can be used to your advantage. Texting stinks and is not a true communication, can't read faces or tones to be able to go a direction. Her wanting to talk about it on the phone, gives you the ability to maybe do some 180's listen & then comment, agree when it's right, easier to sound happy, easier to validate when you don't agree with something when it's on the phone.
Keep working on yourself make her stop at think what she might be missin. Get happy with yourself, there will be good days and bad days, WE all have them I should know haha!
