[quote=JeffSTL I need to talk to a lawyer about my W, I need to ask them about what I need to prepare for D, what and how I should document that W left me and the kids. I don't want W comming back in 3 months and changing her tune about wanting the kids. I need to ask about the house, can W force me and the kids out and what about my 401k, medical and auto insurance and some other custody issues. I don't want to be blindsided by a irrational person. [/quote]
Jeff, man I'm sorry, I thought you had already done this. You need to get this done like YESTERDAY. Get someone GOOD, too (definitely family law) -- preferably someone who specializes in "men's rights" and father's custody issues.