Thanks Trip- long story about my screen name. I changed the first one to chocolate lover when I was going to ask H to join me for the KLA group. And I did a new one as Soxfan2007. I didn't want him to find all the old posts from when we split and were going through all that crap. But then H didn't join me. When I'm at work, the computer remembers me so it was never a problem to post. Now I'm on summer break (my first ever as a teacher- always year round school) and I couldn't remember the password for the new Soxfan2007 account. It kept logging me into the old one. So I put in a request for the change.
I don't have it rememeber my info at home incase H uses my computer.
I try to ignore the things that bug me, but most of the time I end up feeling like crap and unhappy- so I'm trying to figure out a way to deal with stuff.