He left then Cheat 2

[No Longer BH]

I never wanted my H to be selfless, but I never thought that he could turn into someone so selfish. I was ok with the way he was because he still found ways to do things for me that made me feel special. It just breaks my heart that he is now doing those things for someone else.

Today is the day that I transfer S over to H for the weekend. I am going to take my C advice and not even get out of the car. Here's the thing though, H has not contacted me yet to tell me any of the details - the when and where. I dont want to contact him because then I will be fixing things for him again. How long do I wait before I say , um, hello,what are the plans???