On The Rollercoaster Ride!

[addie]

Im sorry but it looks like he is cake eating and you are the fall back plan right now. He should be trying to earn your trust not get back with OM.
If he lies then just keep on going with the move and stop the physical contact....

Thanks for your thoughts Eagle!
I have been feeling like the fall back plan. However, when I think about it carefully, it may be the other way around and he's using OW as the fall back plan. What I noticed about his contact with her, it occurred right after I brought up R talks, the fact that issues need to be addressed, and reaffirmation that I'm still moving with S. H is not ready to deal with his issues so he's trying to run away from reality again with OW.
I may be rationalizing his behaviour.