Mike, thanks for stopping by. The only reason I was considering contacting OW is because H wanted me to tell her off for what happened. As some posters pointed out, he wants ME to punish her but I'm not about to waste my time. Mike, I would not recommend you contact OM. I contacted OW right at the beginning and it pushed H right into her arms. It resolved nothing.
The other Q I have is - Why would H want me to "get revenge with OW" when he's still trying to see if there's a chance with her. He asked me this just a couple of nights ago but it makes no sense to me.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz