Haven't read your entire thread yet, but don't give up posting. If nothing else, at least for me, it's therapeutic just writing down what is going on in my sitch, regardless if anyone gives input. Don't get me wrong I do look forward to others insights and comments, but there is some benefit in just journaling.
I understand your hesitancy to do a PCS move in the middle of all of this. I am in the same boat. However, I've decided that it will be much easier to have a chance to work on my M with my W if we are on the same coast at least.
I think the advice you are getting from the two Readiness Programs is good. I actually use to work at a Navy Fleet and Family Readiness Program and they have some very good resources, for individual and family counselling as well.
Don't know that I feel qualified to give any advice - not doing so good myself right now, but know that you are not alone in all of this!
