I'm so sorry to hear about the set back. I don't know what to tell you to do.
I know some people would tell you not to snoop, but I don't blame you & I would do the same thing. That's just my opinion. But he has lied to you before & you have to see what is going on & if he is telling you the truth. He has to prove himself before you can fully trust him.
Maybe you should ask him up front if he is still in contact with OW. If he says no, maybe confront him. I'm not sure about that don't take my advice, I'm still very new at this.
What do all of you out there think???
Addie, I'm still praying for you! Hang in there. Take a deep breath. We are here for you!!!