I just made a long post to Pam and David on Pam's thread. Check it out, see if you can add anything.
I have to agree, Pam, if your H saw some of my early threads....OY!!! The doubts, the confusion, the excruciating backwards and forwards....we don't call it "Limbo" for nothing!
Was it hard? Did we all wonder at times if it was WORTH it? Yes. But was it WORTH it? ABSOLUTELY.
Look David, I really wasn't sure if our M had a chance until relatively recently. CJ sure wasn't certain either.
But I KNEW for my own future happiness (with or without CJ) I HAD to do everything in my power to try to work things out. I had to KNOW that if we divorced it was absolutely the right thing to do for both of us. I couldnt' bear the thought that "if only" we'd tried XY or Z our lives wouldn't have been ripped apart, that we COULD have had the M I imagined when we first got together.
