Thanks Puppy - I just think she called because she is very emotional today. Her voice was cracking the entire conversation - she was fighting back tears. So who does she call - me. That's the first time she called me at work in over a week. I really think it was a result of the detaching from the last two nights. That's why I feel like she was using me again, pulling the yo-yo strings.

I also think you may be right about the party. But this wasn't a trade off - this was me taking him on Sunday - she wasn't doing anything. She sounded as though the guilt of her not being at any of the boys' activities was coming out.

She seems so conflicted right now. She also got her parents to agree to pay for her therapist. She said she never takes anything from anyone and always pays her own way (I got a kick out of that one - right from my direct deposit) and this is her mental health (that's the way she put it - a glimmer of hope!)


M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.