Thanks FA, I agree with going with the gut thing. There have been many times it seems like fate has shined through to me and pointed me in the right direction.
I really hope that your H makes the right choice, either way I know you will be fine. I agree that we just get to a point sometimes that we are not afraid of losing them.
I think I almost reached that point when I wrote my H an ultimatum letter back in April. Luckily my Gut was telling me to wait on sending it and much to my surprise my H was apologizing to me about a week later and now we have been in piecing for about two months. I still carry the letter with me though (just in case) and it helped me so much to actually write it.
I guess my gut is telling me to be patient right now, and voice my concerns as they come up in nice soft ways so I dont get walked on.
Thanks for the reply and I cant wait to hear your progress with your sitch. Your H would be crazy to choose the OW over a life long companion and wonderful daughter that both love him dearly.
