Addie,Im in the same position as you would love to call OM just to get it off my chest,but i really think she would become totaly defensive.Which would just mess things up!Just pusher her closer thinking im attacking him!
Just my thoughts-Mike
Me:42 W:41 Married 22 seperated12-31-07,served papers 2-29-08 S21-S20 partialy disabled S17 Divorce sighed 10-7-08 final 90 days after