Watching the kids while W goes to OM

[lynn97]

I'm sorry. You're right I'm not listening. I'm just guessing that once I say I'm out she is going to say fine, bye. Fear is a powerful motivator.

So what do I do. No contact today. Saturday tell her that I've given it some thought and while I want to be friends with you and progress toward rebuilding our marriage I can't do that until you sever all ties with him? Even wondering how he's doing or checking in on him will still cloud your mind and hurt our friendship." Then back way off.

I was much better on that mountain. I'm wondering if I should just get away from it all for a week?

Lynn