I never thought of the control thing in this regards...I used to take it as a passive aggressive thing: you know THEY know it's what we want and need but if they "can't" or "don't feel like it" it's a "safer" way of expressing their anger about our controlingness in other areas.
Well things continue to go well here. Realized I posted all over last night, except here!
Had a bit of a tiff yesterday about the $ for my niece and nephew's grad gifts. I took some of CJ's comments to mean he didn't approve of the amount, but he just wanted to ensure the amount was recorded for our financial record keeping. No biggie, sorted out .
Had a lovely afternoon at my Sis's place, then today I took Mom out for her Mother's day lunch (just a little late ). It was a nice afternoon.
Came home, CJ'd done some of the cleaning. I chose to enter the jungle instead of cleaning as the forecast is for thundershowers here tomorrow. I LOVE thunder showers.
Cj's off to watch his niece play baseball, I thought I'd catch up on phone calls but my buddy H isn't home...so here I am .
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). It was a nice afternoon.
