Yea I know I shouldn't have went and talked to her.
Yes, you know what to do.
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But wasn't to see her or get all needy/grabby. I wanted to know where she was at with things. I felt like I needed to know this so I could move on with the things I need to do.
Rationalize, rationalize, rationalize. My H does that to justify his affair, but it's not the truth, just a bunch of bs. Sorry, but that's how it looks to me. I think you know what you should do, but you are making excuses for why you aren't doing it. Karen
Yep. And the harshness of my 2x4 isn't just over this one incident, it's been Lynn's SOP since his first post -- to rationalize his wife's immoral behavior and even look for the board's approval for him to take the less painful road.
Lynn, look, we KNOW it's damned hard -- WE'VE ALL BEEN THERE (or some are there now). Why won't you listen -- and use -- the advice of people who are FAR less clouded by the intense pain and confusion and fog that you are right now???
