Well financially we always kept our bills paid, but I kept a tight reign on money even when she needed more clothes and such. She may just like having some cash on her rather than using the check card. My mind may be over actively working/manifesting/ or speculating things to much. I wouldn't like it if she was seeing an L, but I'm going to try not to worry about that. Thanks for your reply JCJ, can't wait to hear from Sandi too.