When my H was in the anger stage, he really did not say things about me. Instead, he made up very strange things such as accusing me of funneling money from our account and said the bank verified it. I one upped him and called the bank in his presence and they were laughing. He got irked when I proved him wrong. It was the strangest thing ever and where he got that from who the heck knows. When he would get angry, it was at all of us as he was so paranoid, thinking we were always staring at him funny, that sort of thing.
I think paranoia set in with my H more than anything and as a result, he imagined things.
The demise of our marriage? He maintained all along we had a good marriage and that he was happy! Even his probation officer over a year ago would tell me he was a tough cookie to crack because she would try and get him to open up about things and he always said he did not know why he did the things he recently did, marriage was good, does not know why he was cheating on wife.
I think their minds become so twisted and warped that anything is possible.
Last edited by steelersfan; 06/20/0803:05 PM.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
