Sue, I thought about you last night on the way home. Heard Goodbye To You. lol Two things: 1) What does OW tell her H when she is out til 2am??? Just something I was curious about. And 2) I drive my neighbors van every day to pick up the kids in the 'hood from summer school. She is sleeping, as she is a ER pediatrician that works nights. Anywhooo...her H is in rehab for alcohol right now. In her van is a book of daily quotes from Al-Anon. I read it when I am waiting for the posse to come out of school. I wonder if you could pick it up somewhere. Its amazing, and I think would really help you.
