In some ways you are right SF, it can be easier to take the higher ground and walk away.
But... there are also alot of things that the MLC'er says that are actually true, and for those things we need to take responsibility and make those changes.
We all contributed something to the demise of our Marriages.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.