Hey, Shiny...I've been off the bb for a few days- but, good job with the student, not sending your obsessive response! I do have very similar difficulties, and have spent hours and hours writing such responses. Once it was with a client who was being mistreated by her supervisors, and they accused me of I don't even remember what, and I wrote this big long response!! Aaaaah. I am feeling more and more each day that I WAS NOT CUT OUT to be a therapist!
Sorry your sex sitch is not so great. It gives me really good insight into SBH's plight to read your reaction to being "rejected." I am also coming to the conclusion that a lot of my issues are about not getting enough sleep. So we're trying to get that situation to improve...
Has CJ done a consult about getting testosterone shots? I know it helped one man I worked with to allevieate depression, but I never asked about the sex life part of it...maybe it helped with that, too? He seems to have some of the symptoms of low testosterone with the tiredness/depression & low sex drive...