I liked that you told your C right off what you wanted. That's what we call assertive.
Let your wife come to you. I've learned this the hard way TD. I'm sure she knows your rent is due. I think by mentioning it you will just put pressure on her.
I like what you told Julia about moving into a new house and how it's like a fresh start. We are going to be buying a new apartment. It won't be ready for 18 months so that's my time frame for H. If we aren't coming around by the time the apartment is ready then we'll never be back together.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
