Barring a crisis today, I am going to talk with the wife after we put the kids down. Two topics are on my agenda. First, I need to explain to her what sex with her means to me. The emotional connection, etc not just a horn dog release.
Secondly, the last time we had sex she made the comment again about how foreplay was all about me and not her. I really do not understand this. I have tried for 14 years to get her to tell me what she wants here. When I try to get response during the act, she acts all frustrated when she has to say or do anythig. So, I am going to see if I can get some clarification in a non confrontational manner.
