Glad you moved over here Chris, you will get some good advice.
Yep, we have all done it. It takes a while for it to sink in that it doesn't work. He isn't going to give you the answers you want right now so you have to stop asking him. I pratically pushed my H to file for D with all my pressuring and badgering.
You have to have some interactions with him where you ask him no R questions. If you bring up the R everytime you see him, he will start avoiding you like the plague. Trust me, I speak from experience.
Now, the good news is that he is coming over a lot....so you have a lot of opportunities to show him what he's missing! When will he be back?
Have you brought up anything about your D with him? How is she doing?
