Hey Shiny: Just a few thoughts on your recent posts.
The Bullpucky Award goes to that student who projected the fault for her lack of reading comprehension skills onto you.
You say your H is still recovering from your old behaviour: critisism, sarcasm, controlling, etc. Does your H realize that you are coming from a place of fear and anxiety when you did that? Might help him have more compassion to know that. Good for you that you were able to tell him what you wanted to hear from him to feel safe.
About the no-lovin' problem: the more I learn about men going through MLC, the more I think we should refer to it as male menopause. Some guys take a BIG drop in testosterone levels--not to mention all the additional age-related health problems and depression that can cause them lack of libido and need for Viagra!
So now we girls go through our sexual peak at about 30-40 at the same time they are going through their menopause. Doesn't seem right, does it?
