I did briefly talk with her just to hear her position. She is very confused right now, and while some of it is OM there is much more. My counselor and I both agree she is going through a MLC.
While she has severed ties with OM. She isn't ready to work on our relationship yet. Not only is she scared that we will fall back into the same trap, but scared that I won't change my ways too.
She only wants to talk and be friends. I'm going to continue LRT and GAL myself. I feel in a much better place and I will continue to be in that place with or without her.
Lynn
ME: 37 W: 32 S11 D6 Together: 14 yrs. Married: 12 yrs. Previous PA: 8 yrs. ago Previous EA: 1 yr ago