Husband insists its over-what now? Please help!

[AliSuddenly]

Hi Lea,

I'm so glad to hear you are doing ok.. no need to apologise! I suppose it has been a long time for you since the first bomb (Feb 2007). I think its great news that you decided not to sell afterall, then, maybe you can figure out a way to buy him out one day later on down the line, or you may reunite and live there, who knows, but at least you have those options.

I concur with the treating me badly thing... my BF switched off and withdrew and never came back and to be honest, he was pretty mean from last end May onward and gave me nothing. It feels like a long time since I was in a healthy R with a loving partner. I'm not as peace with that as you are, so well done for being able to be so stoic about it. And thanks for your help on my thread!

So whats your plan, you are going to continue to NC him, whilst continuing with your own life ?

Ali x

[One Day]

Hi Lea,

Hadn't heard from you in a few days so I thought I'd pop my head round the door and see how you are. I hope you're OK and had a good weekend.

L.xx

[AliSuddenly]

Hi Lea,

Looks like you left the site!? As someone with a depressed H, I wondered how things were progressing between you, but you have obviously gone out and got yourself a life/gone travelling..!?

Hope you doing ok, if and when you read this!
Ali x