Start of the long and bumpy road........

[TwinDad]

My inlaws called last nite........ they're great. They're amazing. Can't say enough good things about them....it's nice to know that they think their daughter needs to get straightened out....but I also know that I do too.....

That is too funny, my in-laws think my W is making a mistake as well. Her mild tempered grandmother is actually ticked at her. I actually feel bad for her. One time I even told her, "I'm sorry, I know it must feel like everyone is against you sometimes.....just remember I am still your best friend and I am on your side"

Last night went pretty well. We had one of my W's friends over and my W was talking about selling her house (only been in it about 5 weeks) and buying another house. She said that if she made enough profit on this home and smiled and said "if we stay together, you could put your money into to it as well". I just smiled and looked at her and said....."we are pretty much together now....this is the wierdest separation I have ever heard of"....she smiled back and said "yeah your right....we are just maintaining 2 households".

I am not going to push, just let her take it at her pace.