No you are not being a defeatist. A house is a house ...it is not a home. Try this for a 180, call or text your H and say something like "I have been think...and selling the house would be a good idea...... and then list all the good points"
We sold our dream home (one I designed and built to our dreams) back in may and honestly I don't miss it. I recognize the differences in the houses and the definte down grade but I don't miss it. It is not the house, it is the people in it. When your H comes back home, it will not matter where that home is.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
