Hey, I just wanted to say thank you for your post. I've read briefly over your situation and I'm really sorry you are facing it. WAS are complicated creatures that don’t make sense no matter how much we try to, and believe me I have tried constantly for nearly 9 months!
In answer to your last post... Is her withdrawing the money an issue? Does it bring up financial or emotional issues? It not I would let it go, if she is using it to see a lawyer there isn't much you can do apart from maybe get some information yourself if needs be? If you resent her using the money for that then you need to think about it? How do you feel if she is seeing a L?
I think when you see her this Sat act 'as if'. If you try to battle against her it will make her surer in her resolve that she is right. It is the hardest thing I know as it is like trying to hold onto sand slipping through your fingers - the more you try to hold on the quicker it slips away.
I see the apologising thing as quite natural thing for a woman to do. In my experience when men are not able to talk they just say and don't think about it again. For women it is natural to multi-task and we feel bad when we are not able to give someone attention when we are busy doing something else. I wouldn't dwell particularly, I would just take it that when she got off the phone she maybe felt a bit bad at not being able to offer you more of her time or felt bad at having to go so quickly. It's one of those strange grey areas that isn't really clear as you don't know what her thoughts were. I would maybe take it as either a small positive step that she thought of you after the phone call or she thought of your feelings when she started the call this morning.
Hope this makes sense and is some help - this is all IMHO.
