I think it sounds like you and H are making some great progress! My H is very close mouthed. Says emotions and feelings very difficult for him to talk about.
Continued good wishes.
And no it isn't becasuse you turned 40! Last summer I lost 30 some pounds and am going to be 42 this summer. Of course with bomb dropping in March have lost more now but not the way I want too!!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"