Wife Filed And I Need Help With Busting ASAP

[Scott123]

sgctxok - No I was not diagnosed with celiac. Hypoglycemia and an
intolerance to wheat/gluten, which is basically the same. A
food allergy. For example. Once on a clean diet for a min of 10
days I was reintroduced wheat/gluten and bam had a bad reaction.
I got a red rash all over my body and within an hour I was
totally exhausted and ended up sleeping about 16 hours.
The 2nd test caused the exact same symptoms. I was depressed
the entire next day as well. As for rage/anger it is diet
based which also including avoiding preservative, colorings
additives like MSG etc. No refined sugars or grains. Once the
refined sugars, simple carbs and refined grains were removed I
felt 1000% better. I mean it was drastic, I never felt anything
like that before. I'm working with a doctor and nutritionist

failycrazy23 - as far as OM, she admitted to me during the
last breakup that she cheated on me because of emotional
emptiness. She stressed that it was not sexual, just emotional.
I'm not sure if it was sexual, but I gave her the benefit and I
also forgave her and told her that I understood why it happened.
When we got back together she told me she told the OM that she
could no longer have any communication with him and that was
that. Does she still talk to him or others? I don't know. My
guess is yes she does.

Arthur - I have provided quite a bit of stuff for her to go over.
She says she did read through it and knows all about it, but I
find that hard to believe because she just yesterday was saying
that it's bipolar and I need meds not a diet. That was probably
just anger spewing, but still shows to me that she is not willing
to hear or learn anything more about hypoglycemia, food allergy
or gluten intolerance.

DanceQueen - I know you are right on the money and she's
basically said exactly what you have said. I know she was
scared and had/has every right to be. Actually there has
only been two diagnosis. The Bipolar/Manic Depressive diagnoses
and hypoglycemia/gluten intolerance. The hypo was discovered
this year, the bipolar ms-diagnoses has been standing for years
and it IS the reason nothing really worked to permanently fix
the problem. I was treated for the wrong problem. That's what
I've been trying to explain to her, but she wants to hear non
of it as she is just focused on all of the crap that occurred
while under treatment for bi-polar. I do see your points though
and I guess I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place.

She will not go to counseling and she only talks to her friends
and family who are supporting and encouraging her decision.

BTW - when I asked her why she tore up that letter today she
said because it was nothing but lies. Pretty much validates
what you just said. She said her feelings (before this last
episode) were fake and she was lying about them. I know that's
total bull. She was talking about renewing our vows, was amazed
how long it was since we argued or had a fight, was planing
to start a business, move, get land and build a house etc. These
were not just fake feeling, these were very detailed expressions
and plans.

This is such a massive setback. We had awesome plans, we were
getting along so good, everything was going great. I was falling
so deep in love with her again and I know she was too. It was
all just torn right apart in a period of a week or two. Now it's
worse than it's ever been. I don't even know how I'm going to
do any DB/DR now, I cannot even function and to top it off she is
even more motivated than ever to get a divorce.

- Scott