Thank you for all your great advice on my thread. You have been an immense help with the MC. With your idea spur, I think I was able to make MC see my POV and make myself heard to both MC and W. W was somewhat uncomfortable with my straightforward assessment, but then she always has been when it has come to accepting any blame for this sitch.
Once again thanks for the idea, and I thank the Lord who gave me the time to write it all down before the session.