Thank you for that advice which my head(and all my family) say is the obvious thing to do.It would be so much easier if he was unkind to me but as long as he is so confused and lost I cant seem to let him go . He has had counselling and I know realises his behaviour is not right he gets upset and says"forgive my weakness" But I know he loves me.I cant bear the thought of him not in my life anymore.This is so difficult. I guess time will resolve it. Meanwhile, I am managing to go to work and be with my family.Thanks again.