Hey SB. I too have been struggling with these issues. I'm not really sure how to handle them either. I suppose, for now, I've just come to the conclusion that I need to focus on my W's actions and hopefully, over time, the other things I feel are missing will come together. For me it's mostly about trust, I think. It's like I'm M to a stranger that I have to get to know and trust again. Perhaps that's how you feel? And we all know it takes a long time to REALLY trust someone.

Is it a matter of patience again? Who knows...but what choice do we have for now? Sorry to sound so negative. I'm trying to get my own bearings right now...

Take care.

jethro