Well, now you know what doesn't work. Don't do it again. You've got to find a way to be rock solid strong in his presence. You can break down the minute he walks out the door, but not when he's around. It's counterproductive....and we've ALL done it. It's almost instictual, but you have to fight it if you want to save your marriage at all.
There's a lot of us law enforcement wives here too. I'm one.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
