Originally Posted By: Racefan
.....She says peoeple are watching, I said let them she says I am getting light headed (SC is this the way to start 'bending')I thank her again for the shirts and we leave.

I text her about 10:30 and thank her for making it a wonderful day and she says she had a nice time also. Told her to sleep well and goodnight. She says night to me.

So D17 calls and wishes me a happy b-day and apologizes for having to work & miss dinner, I say not your fault and we missed you at dinner. D17 proceeds to tell me that W had talked to her about it already & that W told her it was a very nice time and
it just felt right & good/normal....Needless to say that was something to ponder as I went to bed....

I know not to read into any of this, will stand back abit & observe I expect her to pull back some that was ALOT in 1 evening for a WAS; but at least for 1 1/2 hrs I had my true W back

Thank you all for making me go to the next level to try something different in asking her to go. If I never get her back totally I will always have my 45th b-day to remember.

I have no idea what direction this is going, but for once the rollercoaster ride was worth the price of admission.

Brian




Brian that is so AWESOME !!! I'm sooooooo happy for you. Keep doing what you're doing, it's working. Happy Birthday ! I wish you many more even better than this one.

hugs


M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.