Sandi, I very much appreciate the time you take to respond to my post. First you are going to want to slap me and shake me and ask what is wrong with you? I will get to the point. After a few hours I did send that text based on a gut feeling that she was having a bad day, however I am not using gut feeling as an excuse or to justify my sending it. I wasn't expecting a reply from her, but in case your wondering, no I didn't get one. I think the sad thing is that I know better and I'm smarter than this.
I do agree with feeding her ego and would say that I would lean more toward light hearted playing, but no teasing, I hate teasing. She is on one heck of a roller coaster, I would like to know what I could do so smooth out the tracks on this coaster.
Yes, about the WAW article I would like to go over that.
As for R talks from my recent experience, I do want to stay away form them for a while. Now 2 months ago when we separated she withdrew a certain amount of money that made me believe she might be talking to an L. and that was the only time until this week she withdrew the same amount, so it makes me wonder once again if she is talking to an L.
Also when she got off the phone this morning she said I guess I will talk to you Sat. That's when we are to clean the truck and her parents come get it. I'm also hoping with her parents around that she doesn't start loading stuff up, I PRAY. So I'm wondering what to do this Sat. I feel worried somehow. I just want it to go smooth with really no hitches, don't want to talk about us as in R and am wondering how to handle myself. I feel like I really need some good advice for this. Since I feel lost I think anyone's thoughts may be better than my own.
Two things: 1.I know she went to counseling this week. 2. When she called this morning and the first thing she said was that she was sorry for not getting to talk to me more the other day, I am puzzled by this because she was at work, she took my phone call so that I could ask about a deposit and she told me the deposit. She had a customer waiting and said she needed to go, which I completely understood that. Just not sure why she is apologizing for not being able to have talked more. Man she seems hard to read. Is this typical for women with all that she has going on?
Anyway please respond as soon as possible, thanks.
