I think she feels that somehow she has been inadequate because she depended on me for so long. The weird thing is that somehow that turns into my fault, which I can't really explain!
If you have any suggestions, I'm all ears!
OK, I really will try to read through all previous 23 threads, but for now can you clarify for me why she was dependant on you. Are there medical reasons, was she a stay at home Mom? Just trying to figure out if I have the right perspective before I reply. I have some thoughts coming from a Stay at home Mom with some sort of similar baggage.
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!
