How do you deal with the MLC Anger?

[sleeper]

I agree the best move is to go dark/no contact if possible. When they're in anger stage it's a no-win sitch. I also agree there is nothing you can do that will affect the timeframe in any way.

If you can an added benefit will be the increased impact of the self-improvements you have made when she does see you.

I wish I could/would have gone completely dark for the first year of our sep at least. We have two kids and it just wasn't possible.

"Run Silent, Run Deep" (I love old WWII movies)