I know this is part of the MLC script, they need to validate their decision to leave and their actions (she is dating OM) by demonizing the spouse. But I am so very frustrated. This anger is a road block to her seeing me who I really am, and any possibility of reconciliation.
Shellshocked, I really am sorry you are having to go though this terrible ordeal but it is all par for the course of MLC.
I really have never read any of your other threads so I am not familiar with your story so I don;t want to say anything out of turn, but you say something in your post that really struck a nerve with me.
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I was not a perfect husband but damn close and it hurts to hear the things she says about me. She has done far worse to break up the marriage than I have.
We could all say that very same thing.....but in all honesty there is some truth to the things she complains about.
What changes have you made?
What are you working on for yourself?
What character flaws do you have that could be tempered?
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
