Just thinking about my step-mom and the anger she had towards my dad... Maybe your wife feels if things were different early on in the marriage, and she was able to discover her "identity", she wouldn't be feeling inadequate, thus she feels like you controlled her somehow, which leads her to feel like it's your fault???? I dunno.
What's the temperature right now? I bet it's damn bloody hot.
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence
