red, of course it's oK for you to send a letter like that SOMEDAY. I still think your sitch is too new right now.
Have you identified what her major complaints are about you? Are you truly able to tell her that you know you f'd up? What are you doing to fix things? Tell me about the letter you sent in the past. Did she respond well to it?
For me it was less of how he's going to respond and more to just get it off my chest, and humble myself (not easy for me, stupid pride).
I sent her an apology for being selfish..this was when it was very new..once i get the other PC up and running i will show you, it's saved in there. She basically responded with " i need to do stuff for me(her)"..you need to get support but not from me.. were done.. type of stuff
When i sent the email.. i don't think it was for the right reason, it was pleading for her to stay... dumb..
Yes, my major F ups, ...i was acting like a 20 year old.. with the responsibilities of a 37 year old, whose W and myself were to start a family.. have children.. i know everything i did wrong..
I don't do any of that, i know what i am doing to be positive.. I know I will be a good father ... with the new positivity in me.. i know i will do well.. (does that sound too selfish?)
