Nope and never will. Personally, everyone that I have known that has 'walked' away, split up, etc. was NEVER due to an affair. It was simply lack of communication between the two individuals.
There is nor ever will be another OM in my life as long as I'm married to my H- separated or living together. That to me is a personal sign of weakness. People don't want to look in the mirror and face things, so they run away from it, run to things that 'make them happy'. I'm no exception to running away, but it's a boundary that I will never cross, ever. I have too much self respect for that. I love my H dearly, won't have married him if I didn't. I miss him.
And I seriously doubt that my H has or would ever do the same.
