red, of course it's oK for you to send a letter like that SOMEDAY. I still think your sitch is too new right now.

Have you identified what her major complaints are about you? Are you truly able to tell her that you know you f'd up? What are you doing to fix things?
Tell me about the letter you sent in the past. Did she respond well to it?

For me it was less of how he's going to respond and more to just get it off my chest, and humble myself (not easy for me, stupid pride).

Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."