You sound a little better, you are putting yourself first a bit more. So when are you going to broach the cost of it with her? I hope she responds reasonably...if not, tell her shes welcome to come around and paint the damn house herself if she so wants this D and wants it sold!!! Tell her to suck it up for a change.
Ok, maybe not, but I agree, why should you have to take on such a demoralising and overwhelming task after everything thats happened?
Thinking of you Ali x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
