I see it as a positive sign ... might have been triggered by the fact that since we have now been physically separated for a full year, either spouse can file for divorce and it cannot be contested. Maybe she is afraid I will file.
Originally Posted By: Nutty Chick
It kind of sounds like you are afraid of being drawn in by her in case she hurts you again?
Not really it was just easier when going dark. The plan used to be simple, minimal contact, don't initiate. Now it is a balancing act between initiate/don't initiate/go light/go dark, etc.
