How do you deal with the MLC Anger?

[Nutty Chick]

Going dark has had a very similar result for me.

In many ways my R is better now than it has been for many years.

He is kinder and more respectful to me than he was when we were together; he also does so much more with our son.

I agree totally that when they want to reconnect things get more difficult. That is part of the reason I am still holding my H at arms length.

You seem to be doing well at the moment if she is asking you to do things with her for the first time in a year. Do you see that as a positive sign?

It kind of sounds like you are afraid of being drawn in by her in case she hurts you again…?

Nutty.