How do you deal with the MLC Anger?

[Nutty Chick]

I can’t really answer your question as to what you should do, all I can say is that I decided not to allow my H to spew out all of his venom to me. I did not allow him to try and convince me of the history that he had re-written. It was too painful. I chose to go no contact (as far as is humanly possible with a child) and let him sort out his ‘issues’ about our R himself.

It seems harsh to just block it all out but I had a son to raise and was already feeling bad enough about our marriage breakdown without him trying to convince me it was all my fault.

Do what is best for you. If it makes you feel bad talking to her then don’t do it. I feel there is little point arguing with her about what she says and thinks, her feelings are hers anyway. I tend to say to my H you have your truth, I have mine. The reality is that the REAL truth is somewhere in the middle …

You have done well to cope with it for a year.

The anger doesn’t last forever.

Nutty.