I don't want to hijack Jeff's thread. Did your wife TELL YOU she wanted to walk the dogs tonight? Does she want to do it, or does she want to do it with you? If none of the above...don't be home when she gets home from the gym...take the dogs for a LONG walk.

For the gym, don't go out of your way to find her, but if you walk past her, I'd probably smile and wave, and keep on walking.

Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."