So yesterday was 4 months since the bomb. I went back and reviewed and adjusted my wants based on what I have control of. Here is my new list:

I want my decisions, actions and words to:
* Define me as the man I want to be.
* Reflect what is best for my kids. (More family activities. one on one time)
* Allow my kids to be safe and happy, have fun, and learn.
* Improve my relationship with W.
* Keep the kids out of the middle of my R issues with W.

I want to have effective communication. I want to listen (really listen) to others. This includes W and kids.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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