So yesterday was 4 months since the bomb. I went back and reviewed and adjusted my wants based on what I have control of. Here is my new list:
I want my decisions, actions and words to: * Define me as the man I want to be. * Reflect what is best for my kids. (More family activities. one on one time) * Allow my kids to be safe and happy, have fun, and learn. * Improve my relationship with W. * Keep the kids out of the middle of my R issues with W.
I want to have effective communication. I want to listen (really listen) to others. This includes W and kids.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712